Relationship Talk With Bukky: I can't control myself around women

Now, everyone is like am I not a man enough?

Hello Bukky, 

Good morning, I have a problem of walking with a lady in public. I feel charged sexually when walking with a lady in the public and this is affecting me as I’m old enough to get married.

Because of this predicament I’m still single. I try to keep my mind pure, avoid touching or hugging a lady, don't watch a porn etc. In short, I try to avoid what may arouse me as much as possible.

Now, everyone was like am I not a man enough?

I met a lady six months ago and we only communicate, I try avoiding her and not getting the best of our relationship, she is complaining.  I need your advice.
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Dear reader,

Getting aroused in public happens to many men. Which probably explains why the saying that “the penis has a mind of its own” became popular.

Regardless, knowing when to take your mind off thoughts that could embarrass you in public is key here. You also need to remain disciplined. If you train your mind to converse and not ogle women, that would help to an extent.

But don’t expect a miracle. It’ll happen over time. Before then, go out meet your girlfriend, go on dates and be happy.

One way to avoid embarrassment is to wear outfits that can mask any erection you might get while on the date.

Lastly, see a doctor. They might have insight into this from a different angle."
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